Every child grows and learns at their own pace. Some children walk early, while others take more time. This is often normal. But sometimes, a child may have trouble learning skills that most children their age can do. These skills are called developmental milestones.
A developmental delay means a child learns skills more slowly than peers. Delays can occur in one area or across multiple areas; the latter is called global developmental delay.
Our practice at Legacy Family & Behavioral Health Services is committed to using compassionate evaluations and tailored care. We offer ongoing support for children and families. Early detection of delays boosts children’s confidence and success.
Below, we outline common signs of developmental delays and what to do if you have concerns.
Understanding Developmental Delays
A developmental delay occurs when a child does not reach expected milestones within the typical age range. Delays may affect one area of development or several areas at the same time.
These delays fall into a few main areas.
One area is gross motor skills. These are big movements like rolling over, sitting up, crawling and walking.
Another area is fine motor skills. These are small movements. They often involve the hands and fingers. Examples include picking up small objects or holding a crayon.
Then there is language and communication. This includes both understanding words and using them to speak.
Cognitive development is about thinking, learning and solving problems.
Finally, social and emotional development is about how a child interacts with others and handles feelings.
Every child is different. Some reach milestones a little early. Others reach them a little late. This is often nothing to worry about. But when a child is far behind it is time to pay attention.
Signs of Developmental Delays in Children
Signs of Motor Delays
Motor skills involve movement. There are two types. Gross motor skills use large muscles. Fine motor skills use small muscles.
Gross Motor Signs to Watch For
By 3 months, most babies can lift their heads while lying on their tummies. Trouble doing this may be a sign of delay.
By 6 months, most babies can roll over and begin sitting with help. If they cannot do this, talk to a doctor.
By 9 months, most babies can sit without help and move around.
By 12 months, many babies begin taking steps. Not crawling, standing, or moving may be a concern.
By 18 months, most children can walk on their own. Not walking by this age may be a sign of delay.
Other signs include:
- Not reaching for objects
- Not using a pincer grasp by 10 months (using thumb and finger to pick up small items)
Fine Motor Signs to Watch For
Fine motor delays can show up in different ways. A child may:
- Trouble holding a pen or crayon
- Difficulty picking up small toys
- Problems with tasks like buttoning clothes or using utensils
If your child forgets a skill, like holding a crayon, get help immediately.
Signs of Speech and Language Delays
Speech and language help children communicate with others.
Some signs to watch for include:
- Not making sounds or babbling by 9 months
- Not saying simple words like “mama” or “dada” by 12 months
- Not using gestures like pointing or waving
- Not saying words by 15 to 16 months
- Not using about 10 to 15 words by 18 months
- Not putting two words together by age 2
- Being hard for others to understand by age 3
Other signs of speech and language delays include:
- Not responding to sounds
- Not imitating sounds or words
- Not showing interest in communicating
- Losing speech skills they once had
If your child suddenly stops talking or using words, get help right away.
Signs of Social and Emotional Delays
Social and emotional skills are about connecting with others. These skills help children make friends and understand feelings.
Some signs of social delays include:
- Limited eye contact
- Not showing interest in playtime
- Not responding to their name
- Not smiling at familiar faces
- Not playing simple games like peek-a-boo
Some children may:
- Line up toys instead of playing with them
- Flap their hands or make repeated movements
- Show little interest in other children
By 12 months, many children respond to their name and show different reactions to family members and strangers. If your child does not, talk with a healthcare provider.
Signs of Cognitive Delays
Cognitive skills involve thinking and learning. A child with a cognitive delay may:
- Learn slower than peers
- Stop progressing
- Have memory issues
- Struggle with logical thinking
- Find cause and effect confusing
These delays often become noticeable when a child starts school, especially with colors, numbers or shapes.
What to Do If You See Signs
If you notice any signs of a developmental delay, do not wait. Early help is crucial. Start by talking to your child’s doctor. They can check for any physical problems causing the delay and may refer you to specialists for further testing.
Types of Help Available
- Speech therapy assists with talking and understanding language
- Occupational therapy helps with motor skills and daily activities
- Physical therapy focuses on big movements like walking and running
- Behavioral therapy supports social skills and behavior
Early intervention programs are also available for young children to support developmental skills.
How Legacy Family & Behavioral Health Services Can Help
At Legacy Family & Behavioral Health Services, we help children and families through every step of their journey.
We provide caring, evidence-based services for children and teens. Our team creates personalized plans to support emotional, behavioral, and developmental needs.
Our services include:
- Early intervention support
- Family therapy
- Parent guidance
- Help with emotional and developmental challenges
- Support with IEP and 504 plans for school-aged children
Our family-centered approach emphasizes healing through family involvement, focusing on your child’s strengths to build confidence and resilience in a trauma-informed setting.
Final Thoughts
Noticing signs of a developmental delay can be frightening. Remember, you are not alone. Many families face this. The most important thing is to take action.
At Legacy Family & Behavioral Health Services, we are here to support you. We provide the tools, guidance, and care your family needs to heal and grow. Together, we can build a brighter future for your child.
If you have concerns about your child’s development, don’t wait. Contact your doctor or contact us at (948) 867-4808. We are here to help your family thrive.
FAQs
Can developmental delays improve?
Yes. With early intervention, therapy and the right support, many children can make significant progress. Addressing developmental delays as early as possible can often lead to better outcomes.
Are developmental delays the same as Autism?
No. Developmental delays and autism are not the same thing. Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition, while many children experience developmental delays without having autism.